Midwoof Diaries: The 3-3-3 Rule of smooth transition to a new home for puppies and dogs
The 3-3-3 rule is a helpful guideline for understanding what your new pet may experience as they adjust to their new home. It breaks the transition period into three stages: the first 3 days, 3 weeks, and 3 months. During the first three days, your pet is likely to feel overwhelmed, anxious, or unsure as they try to process their new surroundings, so patience, a quiet environment, and consistency are key. By the three-week mark, most pets start to settle in: they begin to learn the household routine, show more of their true personality, and build trust with their new family. After about three months, many pets feel comfortable and secure, fully adjusting to their new home and forming a strong bond with their owners. Following the 3-3-3 rule reminds pet parents to give their new companion time, love, and understanding as they make this major life transition.
The 3–3–3 Rule for Pomsky Puppies : A Smoky Mountain Pomskies New Puppy Guide
Bringing home a new puppy is an exciting milestone! To help set realistic expectations and support your puppy’s emotional well-being, we use the 3–3–3 Rule; a simple guideline that explains how most Pomsky puppies adjust to their new homes. Every puppy is unique, but this timeline reflects what we commonly see with our Pomsky babies. The 3-3-3 Rule doesn’t only apply to puppies. It can also be applied to any dog that is transitioning to a new home or environment.
The First 3 Days: Decompression
Your Pomsky has just experienced a major life change; new people, new smells, and a brand-new routine.
What you may notice:
• Shyness or uncertainty
• Decreased appetite
• Extra sleep or very quiet behavior
• Crying or protesting the crate
• Accidents, even if previously doing well
How to help:
• Keep your home calm and low-key
• Stick to a predictable routine
• Limit visitors and excitement
• Offer gentle reassurance and patience
This is not stubbornness, this is emotional adjustment.
The First 3 Weeks: Learning the Routine
Your Pomsky is beginning to feel safer and more confident.
What you may notice:
• Increased energy and playfulness
• Testing boundaries
• Vocalizations or “talking back”
• Strong attachment to their people
• Personality starting to shine
How to help:
• Begin consistent, positive training
• Reinforce rules calmly and clearly
• Provide mental stimulation
• Keep schedules consistent
Pomskies are intelligent and observant; consistency is key.
The First 3 Months: Feeling at Home
By now, your Pomsky feels secure, bonded, and truly part of the family.
What you may notice:
• Improved house manners
• Confidence and independence
• Strong attachment to their pack
• Clear preferences (favorite toys, people, nap spots)
How to help:
• Continue training and socialization
• Maintain routine and structure
• Encourage confidence without over-coddling
• Celebrate progress, big and small
This is the Pomsky your puppy was always meant to be.
A Note from Smoky Mountain Pomskies
Pomskies are a blend of intelligence, emotion, and personality. Early behaviors do not define your puppy long-term. With patience, structure, and consistency, your Pomsky will grow into a confident, happy companion. Thank you for choosing Smoky Mountain Pomskies. We are honored to be part of your journey.
